Beary Angelic World of moi~

Sometimes in a relationship, we got to give and take. We learn from our mistakes from previous relationships and try not to repeat anything. We can also see and feel how the other party felt when your current partner do the same thing to you, just exactly what you did to your previous. You will then ask yourself, how come you would do sucha thing, how come you've have hurt the other party without you knowing how it feels?

After such things happen, you will tell yourself that this would never happen again, you wont do the same thing again. Because, whatever you dont like people to do it to you, NEVER do it to others. Well, If a person dont change regardless how many times you tell your partners that you extremely hate what he/she have done, do back the same thing to the person, let the person know how it feels. THis way, they will tend to realise how you feel, and try to change. But if the person dont change, then its time for you to ask yourself if that is a major problem that would cause lots of unhappiness in the future.

ITs so easy to say, but so DAMN difficult to do. We humans are all Fan(4) Jian(4), always must learn things through the hard way, talking dont seem effective when its the best way to prevent any hurt.

Sometimes i really wonder why am i in a relationship when sometimes, being single, you will face no such problems. The only problem you will face is loneliness, which is something i've learn to cope with after my previous relationship. Such freedom of doing anythign you want, no quarrels nor any disagreements. Such a peaceful life.you can practically do ANYTHING you want, no one will stop you, or that you wont feel the need to report to anyone anything.

I am happy being with Justin, just that sometimes, there would be some quarrels and diasgreements. Its common i know. I'm like worried what will happen when we have a long distance r/s. Its so difficult to talk on the phone right now, i cant imagine we being at different part of the world, and maintaining this r/s. So hard to hold on. Am not talking about temptations but how stong is one's heart to carry on without being physically there for each other. hope things would turn out well by then.